Daily Affirmation:
I will not let flawed logic shake my self-confidence.
Let’s be honest, nothing will mess with your motivation faster than working in a place where logic has left the building.
Decisions that don’t make sense.
People being ignored or steamrolled.
Well-functioning systems uprooted.
And you’re sitting there wondering:
“Am I the only one who sees this trainwreck coming?”
It's frustrating.
It's demoralizing.
And if you're not careful… it can start wear you down.
When Logic Goes Missing in Action
Someone shares a solid idea, and it’s shut down, not because it’s flawed, but because of who said it.
Or a conversation about a minor improvement turns into a full-blown overhaul of a system that was working just fine.
Or the powers that be make a sweeping decision based on a vague executive opinion, not realizing they’ve just lit a match under an entire workflow.
Pretty soon, all of this creates a tangled web of confusion, even chaos, and it’s disorienting. You start to question yourself.
“Am I making sense?”
“Am I the only one seeing the problem here?”
“Why even speak up if I’m just going to be dismissed?”
This is the emotional toll of broken reasoning. And it adds up.
But here's the catch:
The more often you face this kind of behavior, the easier it is to become just as reactive in return. Unintentionally, of course.
You start grounded and calm, but over time, you might catch yourself:
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Dismissing an idea because of who said it (Ad Hominem).
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Expecting a mess before someone finishes their sentence (Straw Man).
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Thinking it’s either your way or disaster (False Dichotomy).
It's normal. It happens to the best of us. But it's critical to rise above it, and stop it in it's tracks. Protect your peace, and always be part of the solution.
P.O.C. Reset - When the World Stops Making Sense
Here’s how to use the Pause → Orient → Choose reset when logic goes missing at work.
→ Pause: Notice the Triggers
The first sign you’re slipping into burnout isn’t always exhaustion. It’s irritation.
Take a breath.
Notice what just happened.
Recognize the pattern:
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“This is the third time this week I’ve had to explain this again.”
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“I’m already bracing myself for nonsense when this person speaks.”
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“I feel like nothing I say is heard unless someone else repeats it.”
You’re not overreacting. You’re responding to a pattern. And naming it is the first step.
→ Orient: Stay Centered, Even When You're Triggered
Here's where you get honest with yourself.
Ask:
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“Am I letting their bad behavior turn me into someone I’m not?”
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“Is there any part of what they said that holds value, even if I don’t like them?”
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“Have I stopped giving people a fair shot because I’m burned out from the past?
This is not about excusing dysfunction.
It’s about refusing to become it.
Stay anchored in your own values. Stay grounded in the kind of professional you want to be.
→ Choose: Respond with Intention
With a clear head again, ask:
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What influence do I still have in this moment?
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What’s the most strategic way to push back, offer a solution, or clarify a concern?
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What’s worth my energy vs. what’s better left alone?
Remember: You don’t have to win every battle.
You just have to protect your integrity.... and keep your sanity, if possible.
The Bottom Line
You don’t have to fix every broken argument or carry the weight of someone else’s shortsightedness.
Protect your peace. Stay grounded. And never doubt the value you bring to the table, even when others don't see it.
📌 One More Thought Before You Go…
As frustrating as flawed logic can be to deal with, try your best to stay calm and grounded. So when it happens again, when someone tries to "mansplain" something to you that you already know, resist the urge to throat punch the messenger. Your sanity and mental well-being is worth far more than the momentary gratification you may envision. Plus, it'll keep you out of jail. 🤣
